Polyamory married and dating episode 7 review

What self-work do you need to start doing now to be prepared for an outstanding marriage? In our discussion with Alex Allman we looked at ways to keep the sex alive, and the fundamental importance of that. But there's this sort of internal cleanness where you just get that you're going to spend the rest of your life with this person and that it's the most authentic thing that you could do, that there's no sense of opportunity cost. ” It's like he's literally like he never even thought that he was going to keep the monogamy thing. It never even occurred to him that he was going to try and be monogamous. I'd kill myself.’” [Angel Donovan]: [Laughs] [Alex Allman]: You know what I mean? And that would be horrible and I’d be less of a man if you had an orgasm with him or…” [Angel Donovan]: Right. And when you kind of arrive at this place where you're like, “I guess there's some natural animal part of me that would be like confronted by this, but I wouldn't stand in the way of your freedom to pursue your pleasures and your full sexual self-expression if that included other partners.” And so I've kind of like I've dealt with that, and what I find now is that because of the intensity of our connection, and because the intensity of sex, the intensity of sex drive, the intensity of this like… It's this very intense expression of our humanity, and I want to kind of concentrate it and focus it all into this relationship as a matter of devotion, as the sweetness of devotion, as the satisfaction of that devotion. We don’t swing because that's weird, right (wink, wink)? Like I said, every relationship is unique, just like every human is unique. Like a lot of people never overcome the jealousy bug or the fear bug or the scarcity bug, and you know. [Alex Allman]: But eventually if you were to follow it developmentally, if you took that couple and you kept them together for 200 years, they get to polyamory. It sounds great on paper.” And the next thing you know he's fucking a lot women not his wife, enjoying that, not particularly enjoying his wife that much, “But hey, we're in love and you're my primary relationship.” And then one day she was like, “This fucking sucks,” or she was with some other dude and he was like, “Whoa, this hurts! You know, often it's like I get to a stage of my life and I'm open to these ideas, these new ideas, these new ways of doing things in taking my relationships or whatever, right? [Alex Allman]: And so, you know, naturally in my romantic relationships there's going to be that expression as well. And so I didn't come out of that going, “Oh, marriage is for suckers.” I mean, I had an amazing, amazing relationship, and it kind of reached its natural completion where there wasn't anything else for us to learn from each other. But, you know, in retrospect, had it not ended there were some universal experiences that I wouldn't have had with many other women who I've really loved and adored and, you know, none of those adventures would have happened. You realize like, “She's kind of horny for me too,” and then you could be like very, very quickly at like, “This is a high-stakes game for me. [Laughs] [Alex Allman]: Like so you did kind of get emotionally invested and it's like you really thought, “This is my girlfriend. We all know that's painful because you've invested a lot. I realized that this was a special person who was going to be a pivot in my life. Wow, so I was thinking there, like I think there's a difference between meeting someone and… you know, they have to be at your developmental level.So if you're in a relationship keep this quote in mind. It's the most authentic thing you could do and that it's just the absolute right thing when you look each other in the eyes and you see it and you realize it, and there's never going to be another inch of space in that relationship where you could ever be jealous or trying to play some power game or maintain your coolness in front of them because you're kind of at the point where it's clean. When you hit that spiritual moment, I'm going to call that like when the marriage really happens. He just knew that he had to say that to not get in trouble with the wife before he went out and slept with the mistress. Now, you know, the truth is that the guy who’s in jealousy and monogamous, he looks at the guy in post-conventional monogamy and he goes, “Yeah, see, we're just the same. And so we know that there are humans that really love to live out in the countryside where they can cozy up in front of the fire and play board games and that sounds like the paradise weekend for them, and there are other people who are like the paradise weekend is “Vegas! [Angel Donovan]: [Laughs] [Alex Allman]: So you get that there are like people who just have different character. [Alex Allman]: And when two people come together, that relationship has its own kind of blossoming character, and it's just obvious that what is going on between my wife and I are served most beautifully as a devotional relationship. So is that something that happened to you, you got to a stage of your life, you're like thinking, “Yeah, I'm looking to marriage again,” right? There's no romance there but, you know, really dropping in with another dude and being deeply authentic in our friendship is a powerful experience for me. You know, my first marriage, again it's decades ago, right? [Alex Allman]: I mean, 27 to 47 – a lot of development happens in there, 28 to 47. So it was, you know, totally appropriate, and I've never been close to marriage. Then you meet somebody who’s better and you break up and the breakup’s not so painful, [laughs] you know what I mean? I'm 80% in.” And if it turns out that you have sex with her that night and then you text her the next day and she doesn’t return the text, “Aw, motherfucker, what? I'm crazy about this girl,” [laughs] you know what I mean? you can tell because your wife is a pretty young girl, the girlfriend that I have right now is pretty young too. But when you meet someone else who’s also self-aware, does that allow things to move quicker and to get clearer and to put yourself out there more to push more to 100%? 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When you've got that, then you're ultimately looking for greater and greater self-actualization. so this mad desire, this kind of infantile mad desire for lots of chocolate and lots of sex, that's built into the beast. And I think everybody should enjoy every step along the way. I'm seeing other people,” and hopefully enjoy that stage. Believe me, you're not hurting anybody by playing that game. I mean, there are people who do decide to go the polyamory way for the longer-term, you know, like even inside marriages. But interestingly, pretty quickly later, he decided he was going to split up from his wife, you know, and from his family, and he was going to pursue that life going another way. I think looking from the outside in—and I don't know Steve, by the way, but I know people that know him, [laughs] and so I got… [Angel Donovan]: You both know it but you don’t talk about it, right? I'm going to say that's very similar to conventional polyamory not post-conventional polyamory. [Alex Allman]: And conventional polyamory could work and it generally, like I said, works on low-stakes relationships. [Alex Allman]: No, no, you’ve got to face a lot of fear to get there, yeah. [Alex Allman]: I think you have to start from zero every time.In this Alex Allman interview we go very deep into inner game, motivations, lifestyle and relationships skills. If you're looking seriously at your relationship lifestyle and relationships with women however - this is a great episode to help you think your way through to the right type of relationship, woman and lifestyle for you. And so what happens is, you know, “I don’t mind smoking pot. [Alex Allman]: It's no challenge for me to be monogamous because it's an act of pleasurable devotion. You can't start at some, “Yeah, I'm just”—nobody’s born the Buddha, you know what I mean? I mean, you know, when you're 19 years old, yeah, indulge. I've met young people doing this, I've met older people doing this. So the way I kind of looked at that from an outsider perspective was in a way, like looking at your model as well, like he hadn't gone through that first period of having success with women and getting out there and everything before that marriage. Like he was getting a taste or he decided like internally, subconsciously, I think when he was talking with his wife about this polyamorous relationship he was probably thinking like, “I haven't been with a lot of women,” or “I have really experienced that, so it's going to be good for me.” And then when he started to taste a bit he wanted more of it, right? [Alex Allman]: Yeah, because he hadn't been through those stages. By the way, I didn't even read any of his blog posts so I'm really talking out of my ass here. [Alex Allman]: …you know, the third guy in the room with us. [Angel Donovan]: So that gives you some tasting of that kind of relationship, although it's not… So you can marry somebody and can still be a low-stakes relationship because you're just kind of emotionally dead. I liked them and I wanted good for them, but I didn't have any sense of jealousy around it because I didn't feel like I was in some kind of a deep, intimate relationship with them. I mean, you know, when I say zero I mean there's a…

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Answer this question with your comment: Is marriage for you? It's just a reminder that 'sex' is always going to be playing an important role in relationships. [Alex Allman]: My life is I split time between New York City and the Caribbean, I cut out the sucky months, and married to just an incredible, incredible woman who I adore and who has an intense, probably the most amazing capacity of any woman I've ever met to give and receive love. [Alex Allman]: She's just a remarkable human and pretty much my fantasy. However, the marriage, I think marriage usually spiritually happens at the proposal, maybe even years before the proposal for some couples. They don’t see that there's a moral nonequivalence there. But if he thinks there's any way it could get back to her, he's not going to cheat. And post-conventional monogamy is a totally different concept. I'm slutty, but I'm really fearful and jealous.” So that's kind of it at the conventional level. [Alex Allman]: If your ultimate priority is that kind of pushing the edges of what’s possible and you kind of… [Alex Allman]: And then he kind of sold it to his wife as kind of like, “Yeah, this is evolved and cool and it's going to take us to the next level of trust and intimacy, babe,” because this is the way those people talk. Of course it's going to explode because they're not ready emotionally for it. it's not something maybe you can work into, like having experience like in your 20s dating several women at the same time and stuff like that could give you some kind of basis. Like I said, I don't think it's the highest high, but you know, not everybody’s going to get the highest high. Yeah, totally, but maybe we should aim for that, but yeah. Ninety-percent relationships are like, you know, that’s where the monster fights that leave you like crushed in a puddle exist. [Alex Allman]: Like the more committed you are to a relationship, the more pain you potentially expose yourself to. [Alex Allman]: You're being much more vulnerable at that level. She's so hot that there's like a piece of you inside this literally shaking like a leaf because you just like literally can't believe the level of hotness, and the fact that you're having this great conversation means you actually could end up having sex with her later, and that's kind of blowing your mind and making it almost impossible to even understand what the words coming out of her mouth because the animal beast inside of you is just so blown out by her beauty, and then you kind of make that sudden discovery that she's into you, you know?

If it is in your plans for the future, what did you learn today about preparing for that future? If you let the sex dwindle and disappear, then your relationship is going to follow in suit eventually. In society at large married people are considered to not have great sex lives after the first few years. It happens at that point where you spiritually internally, without any doubt, which by the way some people never get this part of it, of course. So this model overlay is everywhere, basically, and pre-conventional monogamy is the guy in every mafia movie who says, “Babe, you know it's you and only you and I would never cheat on you,” and then calls up his friends and says, “So are we on tonight with the strippers? He was just going to say what he had to say to get laid or to marry the right girl, and then of course he was going to cheat. And then conventional monogamy is kind of built on this fear and guilt and scarcity and jealousy and “I don’t want you to cheat on me because I'd feel like, ‘What if he was better than me or he had a bigger than me? He's certainly not going to brag about it to his friends. he wants to do the right thing out of fear, out of fear and jealousy and guilt and shame and all those things. It's a place where you've entertained the possibility that if your woman could have better sex with somebody else, she ought to because you love her and you're going to stand for her pleasure. At the post-conventional level, what’s really happening is you're looking at the character of your love and what the values of that love look like. And I have a strong exploratory nature as well, but it's not my ultimate priority. and your relationship with your woman really like meets at that level intellectually, emotionally and sexually, then polyamory is naturally just going to be where you evolve if you get there, you know? They talk that way because they actually are at the next level of trust and intimacy. [Alex Allman]: And then, you know, he kind of saw that and said, “Yeah, I can sell my wife this thing,” and smugly probably lied to himself too, “I can sell myself this thing. Multiple relationships is something that a lot of guys do for a while. Let's talk a bit about marriage and how motivation… So I know some things happen in people’s lives, like myself. And it was, of course, monstrously painful when relationships end even when they're complete. [Alex Allman]: So I went through some shit, without a doubt. And that's why I say 100%’s a different animal because you're not vulnerable at 100% anymore because all that shit goes away. Like when you kiss her it's like that moment is like on fire. [Alex Allman]: So you know, my current relationship, I really was crazy about her from the first day. I was like, “She is extraordinary.” And I also knew I was leaving, which I think made me a little cooler than I might have been otherwise, right? [Alex Allman]: But then the whole leaving thing kind of got swept under very quickly because we were…


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